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applesmom
04-26-2007, 04:43 AM
“Carol I have the perfect puppy for you!” “Thanks Pat, I appreciate it but I don’t want a puppy. I don’t think I ever want another dog. I can’t put myself through that heartache again”.

The National Specialty shows are always a great place to renew old friendships and make new ones. Pat and I had met a couple of years earlier at the German Shorthaired Pointer Club of America National Specialty Show in San Francisco. Tori our extremely promising 2-year-old dog had made his debut at this show and had attracted a lot of attention with his animated ring presence and excellent confirmation. The dog Pat had shown had impressed me with his near perfect performance as he gained even more points toward his OTCH. We became friends even though we lived at opposite ends of the country.

Tori was a product of a carefully planned breeding between our Champion female, Clover and a soon to be Dual Champion sire; whose accomplishments and career we’d been privileged to witness and take part in personally. Tori’s confirmation was as close to the standard as any breeder could possibly hope for and his bird finding abilities, trainability and eagerness to please were in the same category. A true dual champion in the making! The breeding that produced him was also our final breeding. All of our hopes and dreams as breeders were pinned on this “once in a lifetime” dog! After Tori’s litter was born, we’d made the decision that due to the increasing problem of unwanted pets; we would no longer be breeding GSP’s. Though we planned to remain active in competition with Tori.

While he was still in the whelping box, Tori and I developed a special bond. We became not only dog and owner but best friends!. We spent hours together every day in obedience and field training as the bond between us continued to grow. All we had to do now was continue his training and allow him to mature enough to finish his show championship. By then his field training would be complete and he’d move on to field trials where he would earn the coveted Dual Champion title as well as his indisputable title of beloved pet, companion and hunting dog!

Sadly this was not to be. At only 4 years of age and well on his way to the coveted Dual Champion title, Tori was diagnosed with a rare and always fatal disease. The months between the first symptoms and the final diagnosis were agonizing. It was unbearable to watch my formerly happy healthy pal suffer through bouts of illness and return to seemingly normal health, only to be stricken down again and again. Once the diagnosis was confirmed, there was no choice but to end his suffering.

As I held him in my arms while he drew his last breath, tears running down my cheeks onto his painfully thin and now horribly bloated body; I vowed I would never, never allow myself to become this close to any animal ever again!

The grapevine in the dog world is an active one! Breeders from all over called to offer their condolences, many of them offering to send me a puppy when I felt I was ready. My reply to all of them was the same! “Thanks, but I don’t want a puppy. I don’t think I ever want another dog. I can’t put myself through that heartache again”.

As the months passed Pat and I talked often. She kept me up to date on the happenings in the world of dogs on her end of the country and particularly German Shorthaired Pointers. One of her dogs, already a Search and Rescue dog, an Obedience Trial Champion, Tracking Dog Excellent and Show Champion was beginning to excel in the Hunting Dog Tests recently sanctioned by AKC and was close to getting his Master Hunter Title. His offspring were doing well in all phases of competition including the Hunting Dog Tests. He’d been given to her as a gift at a time when she didn’t want any more dogs. Yet he’d turned out to be her once in a lifetime dog!

Each time we talked, she’d mention puppies and each time my reply was the same.
My excuses to myself though were becoming weaker and weaker. I’d gone from; I don’t want a puppy. I don’t think I ever want another dog, I can’t put myself through that heartache again”, to “I might have an obedience dog someday” to, “Pat’s dog is producing some fantastic puppies, maybe someday” etc. In other words, I was beginning to weaken; but I couldn’t get past the fear of investing so much love and energy into another dog only to have it end in heartbreak!

At 11PM one Sunday night Pat called. “Got a pencil and paper?” She asked. I’m sending you a very special puppy. This puppy will do it all!”
She then proceeded to give me the flight number, time and directions to the terminal to pick up my puppy! His sire was her American and Canadian CH, OTCH, TDX, and MH. The dam was a lovely Champion that I’d casually mentioned that she reminded me of Tori’s mom, Clover. He was arriving at 6AM in the morning and had already begun the long journey to the airport!

There wasn’t much I could do about it now, but go pick the puppy up. After all I couldn’t leave a helpless 9-week-old puppy stranded at the airport. My first thought was that I would send him right back home on the first available flight. That might be a while though; as the airlines wouldn’t be flying dogs in and out of Phoenix for the rest of the summer due to heat restrictions.

It was a long sleepless night as I tossed and turned in my bed. Emotions bounced around in my head as often as the sheep I was hopelessly trying to count. They ranged from anger, to excitement, to sadness, and even to pity for a poor unwanted puppy that deserved a better home than the one he’d been sent to! I love all animals but it seemed a part of my heart was missing. A part someone else might have to offer this puppy that I no longer could offer to any dog!

The drive to the airport continued to be filled with mixed emotions. They simply wouldn’t settle down. Inside the terminal 3 men were squatted down beside a small dog crate; inside was my puppy. Suddenly I didn’t want to see him, send him back I wanted to say, it’s just too much responsibility to take on right now! One of the men opened the door and gently coaxed Howdy out onto the hanger floor.

“What an ugly puppy” was my first thought! Huge ears that reminded me more of a Basset Hound, feet like a Great Dane, long legs like a Greyhound and his coloring was dreadful. Solid liver and white-ticked body with very little white, not a large liver spot on him and a blaze that ran down his face and across his nose! “There’s got to be a mistake I thought; or someone is playing a joke on me”! The puppies we’d bred suffered from their share of “puppy uglies” but this pup had the worst case I’d ever seen!

On top of the awkwardness he didn’t come out of the crate like a typical bouncy GSP puppy. He exited slowly and deliberately, neither afraid nor excited; he was just—there! Picking him up, I suddenly felt terribly sad. Sad that this puppy wasn’t going to have the loving home he deserved. Ravaged by pangs of guilt, I gave him the usual puppy hugs and baby talk and put him in his crate in the van. All the way home I talked to him telling him how sorry I was that I couldn’t be more loving and that he deserved someone who would be able to give him more love than I was capable of.

Arriving home he didn’t seem to have believed a word I’d said. He happily greeted Tori’s aging mom Clover, found a spot in the back yard to properly relieve himself, chased a few butterflies, and settled in to take a nap. Right in the middle of the living room floor! This pup was certainly not traumatized by the long drive and subsequent flight. And he was definitely no clinging vine that was going to be dependent on humans to be happy. “Well! He’s certainly no Tori”, I said to myself!

applesmom
04-26-2007, 04:54 AM
Pat called that evening and I could barely explain how I felt about her gift. She laughed when I brought up the ears, feet and long legs. “He’s going to be a big dog” she said, “It’s going to take him awhile to grow into everything”. “I don’t want a big dog that’s going to be dragging me around everywhere we go”, was my answer. “I promise you he won’t drag you around; you’ll see” she told me. “He’s extremely independent,” I muttered. “When you’ve begun working with him, you’ll love his independence” she said. Once we’d hung up I felt cowardly for not telling her that he was far too different in temperament and looks from any other GSP’s I’d had and I wanted to send him back.

Still unable to break the news to Pat that I would be sending Howdy home as soon as the weather was cool enough to ship a dog, I felt an obligation to see to it that he was well socialized and had excellent manners by the time he went home. Proper training and socialization would make it easier for Pat to find him the loving home every puppy deserves.

After a few days, it became apparent that either he’d been born with natural manners or Clover was an excellent teacher. I ‘d raised enough puppies though, to know that without proper exercise and training the boundless shorthair energy would eventually get him into trouble if left unchecked. Also knowing full well that he was going to be a big strong dog and early leash training was a must, I was determined we’d take daily trips to the park now that he’d completed his vaccinations. The exposure to new sights and sounds and people would help him to fit easily into a new home. And beginning puppy obedience training wouldn’t hurt either. Astonishingly that simple decision relieved the pressure. I no longer felt the need to overcompensate with Howdy. I could now just enjoy him as a pup in training.

A group of friends was meeting 3 times a week at a nearby park to work with their obedience dogs and I decided Howdy and I would join them. At first we didn’t join in the obedience work, as he was too young. The other dogs were in more advanced stages of obedience training. Even though I hadn’t given Howdy my heart, I enjoyed the puppy interaction, the trips to the park and introducing him to new situations. My goal was to socialize him around dogs and people and teach him basic manners and obedience. Always in the back of my mind was that this would make it easier for Pat to place him when I sent him home. I considered our home a temporary foster home for Howdy and took my responsibility seriously. He had all the love and attention any puppy could want—he just didn’t have my heart!

In a very short time Howdy had captured the hearts of many park “regulars” and their dogs. Right off the bat I noticed his behavior was unlike most other shorthair puppies I’d socialized. The breed is known for its sociability and tendency to respond to overtures of friendship with sometimes overwhelming enthusiasm, particularly puppies as young as Howdy was! The majority of young shorthairs must be taught very early not to jump up on people in excitement. Some never learn!

Howdy’s natural manner was to stand patiently by my side, tail wagging until he was encouraged. He always took his cue from the person who was currently giving him attention. If they were exuberant he would be exuberant too, though he always kept, “all four on the floor”. If they were affectionate but calm he’d respond in kind, never fawning for attention yet pleased with any attention freely given. He was the same way with other dogs. With the older dogs he was gentle and friendly but never timid. Yet he would roughhouse with the younger dogs with typical shorthair enthusiasm. Many times my thoughts turned to Tori and the differences in the two dogs as puppies. At Howdy’s age Tori had been considerably more cautious in strange situations and places and somewhat standoffish with strange dogs, particularly those of other breeds.


During our solitary trips to the park I began teaching Howdy very basic hunting commands with the use of the check cord. The check cord is a 20-foot length of lightweight rope, which allows the pup to range farther away from the handler than a normal leash, yet keeps them under control.

By the time Howdy was 4 months old, we began taking him out into the open desert to our club’s hunting dog training sessions. It was time to introduce him to birds! After the birds were planted, (hidden in the brush) I took him out into the bird field on a check cord. The plan was for one of the bird planters to flush a bird as soon as Howdy scented it. The stimulus of the bird taking flight generally spurs the hunting instinct and a young puppy will respond by chasing. Once the pup begins the chase, the check cord is released and they are allowed to chase freely. Normally they don’t go very far, since at that age they quickly lose interest as the bird flies out of sight.

Even though the pups can’t catch the birds, their natural pointing instincts are brought into play by this practice. They quickly learn that chasing is not going to get them the bird and after a few chases they try to sneak up on them. It's similar to a cat stalking a bird, except a pointing dog will point the scent of the bird whether they can see it or not.

As expected, Howdy went in on the bird and the anticipated chase began! Long past the expected break-off point he was still chasing the now completely out of sight bird! Shocked, by this tremendous display of desire and determination, in such a young dog; it never dawned on me to call him back until he was a blur on the horizon.

At that moment; watching my dog vanishing into the unforgiving desert with a sinking heart, I knew that if I managed to get him safely back; he would be my dog for the rest of his life! Howdy could never replace Tori in my heart, but somehow in that brief time since we'd met at the airport; he had carved his own special place.

The rest is history! Howdy was my last shorthair and the two of us shared enough wonderful adventures together in the following 14 years to fill a book.

I am forever grateful for the gift of a pup I didn't even know I wanted Pat!

Monkey
04-26-2007, 06:12 AM
WOW!!!
That was amazing to read!!
*hugs*
Im glad you posted it and Im sorry for your loss!
And you better Keep Nikki!!!
You need a dog, I know I will never love two dogs the same way..
But without a dog you will not be a whole person!
besides why rob dogs of such a perfect home???
*huggles*

brunosmom
04-26-2007, 08:32 AM
Awww, great story......I am so happy you kept Howdy. Pat is a true friend..............:)

borzoimom
04-26-2007, 08:37 AM
I love that story. I know how you felt at the time too.. !

applesmom
04-26-2007, 11:59 AM
Thanks ladies! Believe it or not that piece was three years and countless boxes of Kleenex in the making! Great therapy!

Photo bucket was down last night so I couldn't add Tori's photo till now to illustrate the difference in physical appearance of the two of them. Each "perfect" in their own way. Howdy is the dog in the avitar!

http://i31.photobucket.com/albums/c360/applesmom/Tori1.jpg
Tori

KatzNK9
04-26-2007, 12:33 PM
What a wonderful, heart-warming story! Thanks so much for sharing it with us. Tori was a fabulous looking dog! So glad to hear he still holds a special place in your heart.

applesmom
04-27-2007, 10:21 AM
What a wonderful, heart-warming story! Thanks so much for sharing it with us. Tori was a fabulous looking dog! So glad to hear he still holds a special place in your heart.

Thanks Katz! Most people are lucky if they have one, "once in a lifetime dog". I was fortunate enough to be blessed with two of them that enriched my life way beyond normal expectations!

Harley Trouble
05-09-2007, 03:17 PM
Awwww!

skunkstripe
05-11-2007, 02:36 PM
What a truly wonderful story!

applesmom
05-16-2007, 01:52 AM
Thank you Harley Trouble and skunkstripe. I'm glad you enjoyed reading it. :)

travis
05-16-2007, 07:57 AM
What a lovely story,brought a tear to my eye as I was reading it,

chickchickmoo
05-24-2007, 12:35 PM
aww bless

agilityk9trainer
05-28-2007, 12:26 AM
Love that story! I've read it before, and still enjoy it.

Now, Applesmom, post the story of Howdy and the commercial. That's one of my favorites, too!

applesmom
05-28-2007, 01:33 AM
Thanks Travis, chickchickmoo and agilityk9trainer. Glad you enjoyed it.:)

agilityk9trainer, the story of the making of the commercial is right here!;)

http://www.dogforum.org/showthread.php?t=7506

agilityk9trainer
05-28-2007, 01:52 AM
Thanks Travis, chickchickmoo and agilityk9trainer. Glad you enjoyed it.:)

agilityk9trainer, the story of the making of the commercial is right here!;)

http://www.dogforum.org/showthread.php?t=7506

Ah! I'm glad you posted it here. It's one of my favorite stories. What a great memory!!